Friday, July 26, 2019

Love Language...

When you feel you need to talk and you just can't - I wonder if I am the only one...

What I mean is I sometimes like to talk to people and spend quality time with them which is one form of love for me. I realized that it does not matter if I am texting, in person, or over video - The point is that quality time is happening.

What about you, what makes you feel loved?  I mean have you thought about the simple things that get you right at the heart and makes you feel special and loved. Those could be flowers, a compliment, someone cleaning your home, feeling a person touch your hand, and/or just communicating with someone.

Some people would call these qualities the Five Love Languages, which are: Gifts, Quality Time, Words of Affirmations, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch.

I encourage you to google - Five Love Languages and learn which language you have.

The point is everyone needs to feel loved.  Loving yourself or another person does not have to be difficult to show, but in return could be very simple. My hope is that people would diversify themselves and find out what way makes you and/or someone else feel loved.

Than go out and show it to the people you love and let people know your love language.  My hope is that people will not fill love with something else that in the end will hurt them.  Loving is amazing and true love is even better.  Don't settle for second best but wait for the best.

You got this, all you have to do is search out what you need and want and remember it may be in the form you were not even thinking about, so go find what fulfills you. And know whatever that outcome is each person is different and receives love in their own way --- find yours!

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